His and her diary
A forwarded email:
HER DIARY :
Day night, I thought he was acting weird. I asked him what was wrong – he said, "Nothing."I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said it had nothing to do with me and not to worry. On the way home I told him that I loved him, he simply smiled and kept driving.
I can't explain his behavior; I don't know why he didn't say, "I love u,too."When we got home I felt as if I had lost him, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there and watched TV.; he seemed distant and absent.
Finally I decided to go to bed. About 10 minutes later he came to bed. I decided that I could not take it anymore, so I decided to confront him with the situation but he had fallen asleep.I started crying and cried until I too fell asleep. I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster.
HIS DIARY :
Today India lost the cricket match against Australia. DAMN IT.
Wonder why women always communicate and talk so much to spouse but men don't, which often can lead to this kind of silly misunderstandings :)
Relationships really are beautiful when there is a great understanding between the partners.
If men are cranky, probably it is much better to leave them alone and let them come back coz we never know why he is so...but sometimes it does get really hurting.
These relationships are totally based on trust . Once a spouse starts lying to the partner, isn't that enough to spoil the trust totally? It is a lot better to be liked for what and who you are, genuinely, than hiding something in the pretext of hurting someone or whatever. One would want to be loved or even hated..for who/ what they actually are !
Afterall, relationship itself means, sharing everything in all good times and bad times as well.
I know men complain that women overthink and make things complex. I think all a woman would ever ask is just love ,commitment and not hide or ever lie to her.
Asking for too much?
3 comments:
started reading on a serious note but ended up otherwise.
however, i think girls are way too emotional and curious in a relationship and not that boys aren't careful about relationship. not everything can be shared with spouse!
I have read this joke earlier and I always think this is another one of those men-women generalizations and should only be taken as that, 'a joke'. There is always going to be emotional imbalance between partners, based on their circumstances and upbringing. It has nothing to do with gender. I know couples where the husband is more sensitive and the wife is easy going. But women are articulate and better at expressing emotions, whereas men aren't. This is more or less to do with society, which conditions men not to express themselves emotionally, basically you are told since childhood that you are a sissy.
-Rohit
@ dolphin..yeah girls are emotional.But don't you think emotional attachment is important in a relationship?
@Rohit, yeah, probably since childhood, men are told so.
I wish they do maintain everything that they are told from childhood. Hmm.
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